THE BUILT PRODUCT
One good conversation, on repeat.
Havem matches two members with a stated reason, sends the invite, and books the call — so your community gets real relationships instead of another thread nobody replies to.
A reason, not a coincidence
Every match ships with one sentence explaining why these two people, drawn from what each of them said they wanted.
Yes and no cost nothing
Both sides get an equal-weight accept or pass by email. Passing is free — the other person is never told, and Havem just finds someone else.
The call gets booked
Once both say yes, Havem proposes times, confirms one, and sends the invite. No calendar tag-team required.
The loop
Members answer two short prompts
When they would like to meet, and who they are hoping to meet. Takes about a minute.
Havem proposes a pair
With one sentence explaining why these two members, specifically.
Both sides decide, privately
Accept or pass by email. A pass is never shown to the other person.
Havem books the call
A time gets proposed, confirmed, and put on both calendars — and you find out it happened.
Why you two
One sentence, not a coincidence
“You said you wanted to meet senior people outside your discipline. Marcus has spent four years building the design system your team ships on.”
Example intro, sent to both members by email.
The reciprocal handshake
Two equal buttons, one honest outcome
Both sides get the same choice, with the same weight — accepting is never made to look better than passing.
If either side passes, the other is never told. Havem just finds someone else.
Great for
newsletter and community creators who want members meeting each other, not just reading another issue.