Questions, answered.

No. Havem is free for members of a community that uses it — the organizer is the one who signs up their community.

Nothing, on your end or theirs. The other person is never told you passed, and Havem finds you someone else next round.

No. Connecting a calendar is optional and just greys out times you're already busy. Every match still gets booked without one.

Yes, at any time — email us and we will remove you from matching. Leaving a community on Havem does not affect your membership anywhere else.

A few minutes to start a Havem, and your first matches can go out within days once enough members have joined.

Very little by design. Havem runs the matching, the emails, and the scheduling. You get to see that it happened, not manage it happening.

There's no hard minimum, but matching gets more interesting once you have twenty or more members opted in — more people means better matches.

Only what a member gives Havem directly to run a match — see our Privacy Policy for the full account.